Happiness is just a self-imposed state of mind. My happiness does not depend on the others. It comes directly from within me.
Recently I discovered that there is a direct relationship between our Interior (subjective, spiritual or personal) World and the Exterior (objective or physical) World. What does this means ?
This means that through our Inner World we can model, influence and change the Exterior World. This is the characteristic of a Strong Spirit.
The majority of people believe that the exterior world influence directly our inner world, and in some way this is what it happens now. The exterior world directly changes the majority of people. It changes behaviors, attitudes, thoughts, emotions, feelings, reactions and everything in you. BUT ONLY, and only if you allow this to happen. But this can be changed. It must be reversed.
Do you know what is the difference between a great man and the common people ? Let’s ask ourselves why Buddha, Jesus, Aristotle, Plato, Einstein and other great people are so well known and why they influenced the world to be as we know it today ?
This is not difficult to respond. Because their inner world was so strong that it modified the exterior world. Yes, they were smart, cultivated, leaders at their times and they had many qualities. There are lots of people very intelligent and so talented, geniuses which pass away without even being known for something. Maybe in some restrained circles ? It is not sufficient to have a known quality. Those great people consciously or unconsciously projected their inner world to the outer world.
But how this is possible ? Why only few achieve this ? Let’s say that we don’t want to be world-wide known. Let’s say that we want only to accomplish things and to have a life of richness, prosperity and happiness. The secret is not far from us. The secret is within us. You must simply cultivate you a strong spirit. You must participate actively everyday and continuously to build your inner world, your spirit.
First, it begins with the foundations. Learn principles of life, learn something that you like, whatever you like. Action as this is already done. Don’t hesitate to ask for help when needed. Don’t panic if you mistake or if you fail. Everybody fails. Know people and learn things from anyone you meet. Everybody has something special from whom you have something to learn. Work and accomplish things.
Do you wish something ? What you exactly wish ? Everybody wish something. Make realistic goals and plans and follow them. If you fail, try again and again. Failure is just a lesson, nothing more.
Don’t fear! Fear is the killer of success, happiness and good in life. I don’t want to tell you how many chances you loose everyday if you are afraid of something. If you have fear of something, confront with it. You will see that as soon as you are face to face with the object of your fear, it will miraculously vanish as it never was. Because fear is a negative state of mind which is making a virtual reality. But only within you. You must be positive.
Be positive ! Never judge the others if this is not regarding you. Let the others be as they are. Don’t waste energy trying to change them and spend more time working with you. Changing you, being positive will have a greater effect to the others. Because there is an entire world of emotions and thoughts which others can perceive consciously or unconsciously from you. If you think bad, bad things will happen to you. If you think good, good things will happen. Why is like that ? Because energy can effect matter. In physics, matter is just a solid state of the energy. The positive energies will attire positive energies which are having a superior energy, higher frequencies. Negative energies will have a low energy and lower frequencies. They are not compatible one with the other.
If you have a superior energy, you can’t be touched by lower energies. It will be like small trepidation to you. It will deflect by itself. So being positive means that you will have a state o mind in which negative feelings are not present. And this depends entirely on you because this state comes from your inner world.
Rest ! Find time for yourself and spend time only with you. Don’t be afraid to be alone. You are born alone, you will die alone. You can’t change this, whatsoever friends, family and lovers you have. They can give you a certain amount of emotional comfort, but the difficult job is done always by you. So, don’t be afraid to spend time alone and thinking about you, make order in your own thoughts.
Be calm and know every piece of you through actions, thoughts, emotions and other people.
In effect, you must do things of common sense. Be equilibrious in everything, don’t be crazy only to show others what a “DIAMANT” of a man you are. It may be interesting for a while and this can give you some satisfaction of short time. But this quickly disappears and you must do another craziness to gain another appreciation. Finally, you will find that you did things to impress others but this means nothing to you. You simply lost precious time.
Always try to impress yourself, in your way. Don’t do things just to please somebody. Do things because you feel from your heart to do them! It is YOU which matters. Others are others, let them be as they are. For your inner world this is only about you. If you are in an active relationship with others the center of your attention must be to them but in relation to you. Find things at them which correspond to you.
You are another human being among the billions others. Don’t think that you are more important than the garbage cleaner even if you are the president of the United States. This is only a simple circumstance of life what you or someone else is as a social position. Don’t think that you are superior to somebody but neither inferior. Our soul, spirit are the same. More than that, same cells, organs and bodies are building us. We are the same, we all die. What it separate us are only beliefs, better saying miss beliefs and misconceptions.
OK. So let’s return to the main title and question we posed at the beginning. How is that our interior world can model the exterior world and not vice versa ?
Because…The world as we see it and perceive it is just a projection of our thoughts, feelings and spirit which lie and reside inside us. We are making the world. Jesus said in (Mathew 5:13-15) : “You are the salt of the Earth. But if the salt looses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again ? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men.” I think this is quite about what I tried to wrote here. So… The exterior world is a direct result of our interior world. And you must do all you can to BE POSITIVE. And slightly and slowly you will see that all the world around you will be positive. Because positive attire positive.
Capisci ?

