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Aggression is present in all of us everyday life. You can see it at on every corner of the street, in social human behavior, in television, movies, history. Somehow, to be violent it is embedded in our nature. In time, we lived and evolved in a world full of violence, in a savage habitat where violence is the dominant characteristic: The gazelle is eating quietly some vegetation and the lion is hunting it to eat it to the dinner.

There is part in the human brain responsible for the aggressive behavior: the small brain which comes directly from the ancestral evolution. At the beginning, the brain was small and in time added new layers, the superior layers of the brain. The basic layers remained in its centre and are associated with the primitive instincts like: reproduction, defense, survival , eating. This is the place where the aggression behavior lies also. These instincts are literally written in the very basic structure of the brain and you can’t ignore them. They are written deep inside you. When someone is attacking you, your first reaction is to defend yourself against the attacker. This is the behavior you’ll have.

When we speak of these basic instincts the conscious mind is far away. In such a moment, you can’t have consciousness because you are living at a primarily level (defense). This is not existence where you are, this is survival.

Humanity has never been completely at a higher level of existence, only parts of it. Some developed nations have a wealth status although, and consequently, their people gained a higher state of consciousness. They don’t need no more to gain their existence by using the primordial instincts because they have all they need to survive and even more.

But in the developing countries like the most countries of Africa, the situation is very problematic. There are people which die because of starvation. Consciousness here does not have its place and the control is taken completely by the primary instincts of survival. Talking about ethics and morality here is a nonsense. Life itself is not moral for those people living at the limits of survival. They can do actions which are helping them to maintain their lives, no matter what these actions could be. Men, which are at the limits of survival are capable to do things for which they can’t be completely blamed.

There is emigration, ethnic conflicts, there is steeling, even killing,. Situated at the lower limit of their lives, primary instincts are fully present. Poverty is one of the main sources of all problems in our world. People from poor countries are committing actions against the people from developed countries. Terrorism is the answer that poor people are giving to the other people who live in good conditions. The acts of terrorism have appeared because of their hate for richer people and societies and also because those people, at some point, took advantage from the poor people.

There is no action without a reaction. This is a universal principle and it applies also in this case. Exploiting the poor people and taking advantage from them has a long but sure response. They will surely one day come against you and try to knock you out. They hate you and they’ll do anything to see you down. Because the wealth nations and citizens are well defended militarily, the organizations which are represented by the  interests of poor people have found a new way to react : the terrorism. The terrorism does not require extensive funds of money and people with these convictions are trained to do everything against the richer people. That is why these days we are living these threats.

We must help the developing countries to rich a standard of life which is better that it is now. We are not isolated ones from the others on this planet anymore, even if we are living in different places, cultures, habits and mentalities. The global communications and the globalization process moves us much more closer and the interactions are made in lots of ways. If we help a little the unlucky to attain a certain level of prosperity, we will contribute also to our stability because they will not be situated at the survival state where primary instincts are situated.

Morality, ethics and consciousness reside at a higher level of existence where all the people from this world must be. But to accomplish this, major differences between people must be passed. It’s not about communism and living all the same life, having the same culture. Globalization does not means that we all need to be the same. It’s about having common ideas about life, having the same purposes and to share the same space where we live: the Earth. We must acknowledge all of us that everything we do has a consequence even if this is not immediately seen. For this, a level of understanding and comprehension is needed.

Life is a circle. You can be very rich but you can’t not enjoy life even if you have all the reasons. You can be poor and be happier. It’s an equilibrium. Life is taking your energy equally. If you have a lots of money and you don’t have the capacity to live free, you’ll be the slave of your money. Your entire energy will be taken by the money and you’ll not have the capacity to enjoy the most simple and beautiful things. Life is us and near you, peace is within us. Humanity must pass this obstacle that represents the surpassing of primary instincts and go further to another stage of evolution. This must be a dream, an ideal, but think that without a common ideal of the humanity, humans by themselves don’t have the power to move further into existence. A collaborative effort must be done by all of us.

There’re lots of things yet to be said. The entire world depends of us. Everyone of us must be aware of its own actions. Living quietly is not so difficult after all if you take things quietly. Having peace is the natural result of wealth of every human on this planet. And this is not be only a possibility, this must be a certainty.

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I must recognize it : I have a Facebook account. With friends and photos and videos and comments and all these Facebook stuffs like games, likes and places and groups and so on. And I like to look at their photos, to the places where they have been because I want to know what choices I have. Like everybody.

Maybe this little description on how I see all this Facebook thing will not change your view about the Facebook phenomenon. Stay relax, it’s not my intention. I want to describe just a few thoughts about this, and I just want to assure that you consider Facebook as being the right thing. Nothing more. In fact it’s a website for God Christ! It’s not your life, it’s not you and this will never be. It can’t represent you, not even a 1 % of what you are. It can’t do anything.

This reaction came after a friend of mine who, in the past, permanently and continuously  rejected all the Facebook idea created a Facebook account and added me as a friend. In that moment, I said : What’s happening here ? Where we are going ? What is Facebook ? Is Facebook a virus or something? If you don’t have a Facebook account you are not cool  anymore? You represent less ? Or what ?

Let’s start from the beginning. We know that Facebook has a big reputation in the World Wide Web. Facebook is ranking as the second website after Google. Do you know what this means ? Maybe you do. Anyway, this means that Facebook has the second traffic from the web after Google. You know ? Google, the search engine which is accessed for searching things on the internet.

Why? Why Facebook is so well accepted by people and they keep coming to this place ? It’s a socializing network and people can meet each other after years and years of lost contact. Maybe someone is in Australia and his friend is in Japan. They can change words, impressions and have a minimal contact with each other.

Facebook works like this. You create an account, you complete your profile and you begin to add photos from the moments and places you consider valuable for you. The most people do like that. Then you add friends you know (or you think you know) and then you begin to interact with them. It’s a very good platform for socializing and maintaining a minimal contact with someone you know.

People are spelled by Facebook. Beginning from young people and finishing with old people all begin to talk about Facebook like a sort of revolution. They are amazed by this.

And the Facebook phenomenon gains more and more adepts.

Another reason is that Facebook has various games, various applications and ways of entertaining people which are permanently maintained and upgraded. It arrived to be accessed very often by people which previously used the internet to verify only their mail boxes. Now they have begun to do something more: access the Facebook account. It’s like a thing which attires you. You are amazed and you are curious what happened in this virtual space while you were outside the Facebook. You are connected to this world because you put something from you: your photos, your memories. A small part of your life is there, including friends. The Facebook has you !

But you must pay attention. Facebook it’s a web platform. Nothing more. It’s a place for contact, hand shake and acknowledgment. It’s not a REAL SOCIALIZING. It’s far less than a real socializing. This platform does not represent you. Not even 1 percent of you, of what you are. Yes. It’s fantastic how Facebook manages to give you that impression. Your Own Facebook Account enters into your mind and gives you the impression that something of you is there. And you love this idea. Because you want to express yourself, to know people, to share to the world a part of you, a part of what you are and who you are.

Everybody wants to be known for something. Well, Facebook succeeded in making things appropriate for people to present a part of themselves. This is not something bad. It’s a wonderful idea in fact. The danger represent the addiction. The addiction of the idea that the Facebook profile you created is you. It’s not you, it’s only an image, a very small representation of you. Like a CV. But you don’t look at your CV everyday like you do with your Facebook profile, don’t you ? Why not ? Because you are proud of your Facebook profile and of the image you created. You are curious about what others say about you, about your photos. You want to be admired and appreciated and This is the addiction. You become attached by the image you created about yourself and that’s why you keep coming to Facebook everyday.

Facebook it’s not a socializing place. Because a social interaction is far far more complex. It’s just a meeting place. You don’t know people on Facebook. You only do a hand shake. A small “Hi!” to someone you know a little. It’s a place where you can laugh, spend some time, know about events and other things you like. It’s an entertainment place. That’s another reason why people come to Facebook. You can organize meetings, participate and involve in different activities.

I used to have profiles on almost all the well known socializing web platforms. I deleted them all. I keep only the FB profile. How much. I don’t know. The idea is not to be addicted and to use Facebook in the right way and in the right measure.

Cheers !

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